if you hide the truth from someone does that necessarily means you're not trying to hurt them? on the other hand, if you tell the person straight up, no lying, you're hurting the person.

people don't want to hear what they think is not suitable to be heard or maybe hurtful to them. but if you don't hear it, it means you're running away from the truth. and we know, we need to know the truth.

if you don't tell someone something just to save their feelings, you're keeping something from them. if you tell, they'll hate you for telling them.

i believe in knowing what is to be heard and also to tell people what they have to hear. no hiding. no denial. straight up, i'll tell the person what they need to know. why hide?

if you're like me, a very straight-forward, people think i'm either a snob or a insensitive b*tch. true. they don't like what i say to them but i'll still say it. i don't care whether they like it or not. vice versa, i expect people to tell me what i need to know. if i'm offended, that's up to me how i handle it. but usually i won't.