sometimes you dismiss something that is said or done to you which you disagree. maybe you agree with what was said or done but in order to preserve your ego, you disagree.
come to think of it, there's always a reason or some reasons for something that is being said or done.
at times, you find yourself being told that what is said usually, done, is actually for our own good. of course half of the time, you'll disagree. not only teenagers do that. adults are doing it too.
when i said, 'usually said then done' was because humans does things at first, naturally. those who voice out are the most verbal lot. but to sum things up, we, do things first then speak.
maybe i was wrong. maybe we, humans talk first rather than do the action. come to think of it, i was right. humans indulge in physical activity rather than clear things by talking things through.
said or done. which ever comes first. it's definite that things happen for a reason or another. whether something is said or done, there's always a reason for each action.